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Know When Enough Is Enough
Has this ever happened to you? A good mate of mine who used to play with Frente was telling me a story about the drummer from The Counting Crows who at the height of their success pulled the pin. He had lost his love for music and was living a lie. So he did the right thing and retired from the band. He now still plays small clubs and loves the intimacy of this situation. Who of us has actually continued to do something knowing full well that our heart and soul was not into it? It's a difficult question but one that needs answering because not only are you deluding yourself you are also being dishonest to your band mates and all associated with that venture. Music as with any other pursuit should be done with passion. Without passion and committment your performance will never reach those dizzying heights. I must confess towards the end of a particular band i was playing with i was reluctantly rocking up to gigs, playing with a feeling i didn't really want to do this anymore. It all became a bit of a chore. Time out was required. I reckon we owe it to music to be 100% committed to the cause as there is nothing worse than seeing musicians going through the motions especially when you have shelled out the hard earned. So i took 18 months off. It was the best thing i ever did as i came back recharged, fire in the belly stuff and have really enjoyed the opportunities that have come my way ever since. Music is a joy again - as it is always mean't to be. A brilliant way for us to express ourselves. Oh how lucky we really are. If only we just took the time to realize this. Bottom line if it's doing your head in and you'd rather be some place else - Take a break it's only fair on everyone or as Mark Schulman from Pink says "quit moaning and go have a beer"!
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